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writes: Ok here's the problem .............. been married 22 yrs. Husband cheats with ex then drug whore in these 22yrs . Says he has stopped ! Ok I have been faithful this whole time . But because I had been hurt so much thru this I had to find an escape place . A place to go to in my mind where I couldn't be hurt any more ! So I eneded up seeing a pic on the internet of this guy well needless to say I let my mind wander and eventually I became obsessed with this guy whom I know I will never meet ok .But I actually let myself fall in love with him he has been on my mind and in my prayers everyday for 2 yrs now! I can't get him off my mind .I'm have made myself sick with all of this it's like i'm in jail serving a life sentence ! I don't love my husband any more have not kissed him since all the trash took place although we are still having sex which is good no problem in that area .But I know I don't love him he is more of a friend . Why is this happening I'm too old for all of this crap!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009): My husband had a online affair that turned sexual, I found out and confronted him he of course asked and pleaded for forgiveness, he cried and told me the woman was a whore who promised a fantasy of sexual "who knows" ANYWAY I was never the same it has been 2 years I told him how I felt that somehow the love is not the same that I will never love him again the way I did, I thought he was my World, that he could never do no wrong and how that has changed now he is just another man who looks like the person I thought I married but the morals are not the same as mine. He keeps telling me it will change that I will love him again the same, but I doubt it very much.....I know How you feel...it is a very dead feeling inside....I was married for 18 years when this happened,,the wedding band has come off many times its meaning is gone....
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2009): TOO ALL OF YOU WHO HAVE REPLIED TO MY POST THANK YOU ALL MAYBE I'M NOT AS ALONE AS I THINK !AGAIN THANK YOU . PLEASE KEEP ME IN YOUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS !
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reader, femalecupid00 +, writes (13 February 2009):
"TOO OLD"........NEVER! Later for what you heard or whats in your thoughts you get out of this relationship if you really want. now of days young hot love older women. (WOMEN ARE LIKE WINE THEY BECOME BETTER WITH AGE) My advice is dont be shy......and everyone deserves happiness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2009): Thank you ! You are abolutley right I need me time ! I have spent yrs raising children and catering to everyone elses needs but mine ! The yrs have taken a toll . But you know when this all started I decided to do just that . I retired from working out in the field { painting and hanging wall paper} and stay in the office now ! I lost 76 lbs so far and I'm back in a size 4 I'm taking music lessons and sewing ! But it's still hard I'm miserable and lonely you can have ten thousand people around you and still be lonley it's a crying shame . God is going to have to move one of us one way or another !I'm just waiting on him sigh .........
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question All good answers he knows how I feel the husband any way he swears that he hopes one day I will love him again ! I know I can't not the way he wants anyway ! Or as deep as I use to . I gave him everything I had to offer . I spent myself on him ! And as far as the guy on the internet he was just a picture . I have contacted him once but that was it he is married which I never told him what I thought So getting over this situation is not easy because I let myself be consumed with it .
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2009): I can say I know what you are feeling right now, but don't you think you should be honest with your husband and let him know you are not feeling the same way about him anymore. Because, maybe he would get his act together or maybe set you free. And my question to you how does your internet love feel about you?
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