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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My emotional affair ended with the married man! I miss that time and very upset..need counselling?i m 27 and had an emotional affair with a married man with 2 kids for the last 1year. i trapped in his emotional talks . initially i never beleive him then suddenly he used to say so many lies he used to swear on god that he loves me so much"and he said that he prays that i should get his share of happiness and in next birth i should meet him early. i used to discuss my all the problems with him so openly. he used to hear all very patiently. But every moment he tried to put some non veg jokes and tried to touch me whenever he got the chance. I used to push him away. For that he got very angry with me and used to say "that i love u so much, more than his life but u do this with me". I always reminded him that you are a married man ..it's wrong but he used to get very very angry with me on this. I always made it very clear that we will only have emotional bonding not much but he always found it so funny. every time he used to find opportunities to meet me alone.i never let that happen .Then one day he invited me to his home when his family was not there..then i refused to go. He got very upset, scolded me too that you only like talking to me,he said"i cant keep loving you like this anymore and delete me from ur life. Now it has been 3 months he is not talking to me , avoiding me very badly and I think now .i m very upset due to this really missing all that good times..i used to cry v badly when i recall that time ,when i hear his voice and his loud laughs in office i get very very upset .it seems that he is not at all missing me and very normal as he was earlier.i m in a very bad mental state these days.please help .really need some counselling ..please help.Please suggest me how can i throw him out of my life.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (12 February 2009):
You need to change jobs hun. You need to get away from him.
Once you have some distance you will find it easier.
It is clear that he didn't want to be with you if you weren't going to have sex with him. That is not love.
Try hard to be strong. Don't give in to these feelings.
Good Luck!! xx
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