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writes: Hi guys...any help would be much appreciated.I'm 24 and had a very nasty break up after a 4 year realtionship about a year and a half ago, and getting over it has been hard work. But the past few months, I have been feeling a lot better about about everything,but the main thing is my crippling fear of ending up single. I know I am young etc etc, but it seems that every week another of my friends is getting engaged or married, and it's starting to stress me out...I have an active social life and am almost always busy, but I just haven't met anyone I've really had a spark with...as a result of this, I find myself developing fixations with people I would never normally be interested in (and they probably feel the same about me!)Is this because I am so desperate to be with somebody that I don't care who I'm with, or just that I am picking people I know I have no chance with so that I won't get hurt again? Any advice would be much appreciated. I feel as though I am stuck in a rut, which at my age is silly! Thank you in advance for your advice..:)
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reader, steffy-boo x  +, writes (13 February 2009):
 of course it was hard it was along relation shipi know the way you feel i havent been in a relation ship that long just over 2 years and well we have decided to be freinds un noand well the relation ship strains arent there fr example oh i must call or i must see i hope just the strain of trying to be there for one person and careing an d all the things that happen in relation ships wellwhat you are feeling is normal you know like i have very busy social life always out and about and well being out the relation ship u dont have certain things to worry about you have more room if you get me!it simple because you have got used to being in a relationship and now ur out of it u have all the timeand no talking to poeple you wouldnt normally talk to aint wrong one tiny little bit is goodcontinue if it makes you happy you shouldand about being desperate nah every person you know or talk to there all diffreernt thing you like and are attracted tofor them to become your friends or anything they are all unique and if you feel the buzz u get when you see some one speacial let the buzz be the buzz it feel incredibale but never do anything you dont know if you dont want or feel uncomfable withi hope i helped i am sorry sprrryi couldnt say no moresteffy
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