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writes:I am worried... I have small boobs and that the guy I like won't find me attractive becasue of it, does the size a woman's boobs matter to men? Is there anything I can do to make me feel more attractive in front of my guy and is there anything I can do to make my boobs look bigger?Please, it really bugs me and saddens me quite a lot because the relationship is going ok at the moment and I don't want it to just go on if he isn't attracted to me as I really really like him.steffy
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): hey, i like big boobs, obv, but; its not always about size, but about shape. i respect and empathize about girls not being open about havin smalls but dying inside - hey, u know wat? i find small boobs, or even FLAT boobed chics fit. it really, dont matter.
a guy aint stupid for liking big boobs..but hes stupid if thats all he likes.
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reader, PeteTTT +, writes (4 April 2009):
I've slept with women with small, large and average boobs and it doesn't matter one bit, it's about so much more than that. One of my exes had small boobs and it bothered her much more than it bothered me, I gave up trying to buy her nice clothes because she said she couldn't fill them (even though she looked great to me) and she used to make me take the clothes back. Eventually, after we broke up, she had a breast augmentation operation and she told me it made her feel a lot more womanly and happier in her body. So, in answer to your question, boob size might matter to some shallow men but no man I know would turn down a beautiful woman with small, pert breasts so the long and the short of it is: Breast size seems to matter far more to women than it does to most men, a woman is not just a pair of breasts, she's a whole woman and as men know, it's the whole package and the way women make us feel that matters most. Love what you've got and love yourself, confidence goes a long way towards making you attractive!
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reader, Miguel Spain  +, writes (4 March 2009):
I think that if you are already in a relationship with this guy... It must be because he really likes you, and your boobs are not an issue for him. But I must say... Boobs matter to men, maybe not the size, but they matter. I need to be really attracted to a woman to be with her and the body is very important. I mean, I know the physique is not everything, but it is a requisite. I could have a beautiful friendship with an intelligent girl and whatever, but if I don't find her attractive it couldn't become anything more. So men love nice boobs and everybody know it. Maybe not HUGE boobs, but you know, not big, not small... Every man has an idea of how "the perfect boobs" should be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2009): There is no secret that men likes boobs, but the size of the boobs does not matter at all. Its her personality that matters. Norway
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reader, Sam12323 +, writes (27 February 2009):
I am a guy :P, I like boobs, gods best creation, but size is not everything. I dont like it when boobs are too big coz you cannot see the girls face. Trust me, if you have a good persona then you will find someone, if not then they are idiots :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): No it doesn't, my boyfriend says they're just the right size to mess around with. I'm a 34A yeh small for a 24 year old :L but I don't care so no, just go out here and be yourself.
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (12 February 2009):
boobs are like penis sizes. we all think it really matters whether they are big or small, but the reality is that it does not matter one bit.
if you are already in a relationship, then he is obviously attracted to your body and your mind! guys like boobs no matter what size they are, to them they are still soft handfuls of joy. they love them because they don't have them. whether they are small or big they just want to grab them! so don't worry. some of the most beautiful women have small boobs, take alot of celebs...they don't have trouble getting men, neither do the ladies with the larger boobs. just enjoy your boobs and let him enjoy them too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2009): Men LOVE ALL breasts. Repeat this often. Large firm breasts are a nice bonus feature but it's firmness that's key, large soft breasts are a turn off for me.. frankly smaller breasts tend to be more sensitive (also firmer than too large breasts). hope this helps - bottom line is that a loving relationship is based on soooo many other things than breasts. enjoy
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2009): That will only matter to the disgusting, horny guys. A good guy wouldn't let that bother him. But don't let an ass hole get his hands on you.
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reader, Gorgeous' +, writes (12 February 2009):
I have small boobs, and when i first got with my boyfriend over a year ago now, i wouldnt let him see them as one is slightly bigger than the other but they are still both small. ( i wasnt blessed in that department!) After around 5 months i let him see them, and he loved them even though there isnt a lot of them, now i think to myself why was i so shy about him seeing them? Guys like boobs whether theyre big or small, my bestmate has F boobs, there massive and shes never had a serious relationship, so it cant just be boobs guys look for eh? Love what you were given xx
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reader, Annieapple +, writes (12 February 2009):
Most guys are just grateful to be allowed near a pair of boobs! If a guy likes you he likes you and that's it. Try not to worry.
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever- +, writes (12 February 2009):
 I have small boobs and my boyfriend doesn't mind. He says they're just the right size so he can grab them and mess around with them easily.
I don't think it really matter... Big boobs get it the way anyway right?
Maybe buying padded bras will make you feel better and more confident about them? They work for me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2009): lot's of guys don't like big boobs…don't worry, he should care about you for who you are naturally and for what's on the inside…if he doesnt, then he's not worth your time…find a guy who likes you for who are you, not someone who is only interested in superficial things…no ones perfect…no one stays beautiful forever…and eventually one day we will all age and wrinkle and sag and hopefully you will have valued more in your partner than just their boobs…you shouldn't have to conform to find love
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