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*lle11
writes:My boyfriend gave me his email password along time ago when we were just friends and he knows I still have it. Anyways I always go though my junk and delete it but he never does so I go on his and do it for him. For the last 2 days there have been junk mail that says:1st day: busty blonde takes two **** in her *****Slutty black babe gags on **** and gets her ***** naildedand a link that said "daily updating" that brought you to a page of other porn sites and there was on the bottom a unsubscibe link2day:Hunky stud gets spanked and punished by two hot ladieslusty blonde takes two **** in her *****and a another link (didn't say the same thing) that took you to different screen of porn sites and also had a unsubscribe button.Has anyone got these before? did he sign up for something within the past 3 days? or it random it just stared? He promised he wouldn't look at porn online anymore (we have made a fun little system so hopefully he wouldn't want to) but anyways do you think he signed up or went to a site that got his email? do you think i should say anything? i dont want to start a fight if it is just regular spam.PLEASE PLEASE HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2009): just ask and find out and dont be afraid of ruining the relationship.if hes one of those pathetic porn guys ( and most of them seem to be) dont buy his stupid 'its normal' crapdump him and find an amazing guy like mine that agrees that porn is stupid for losers who cant enjoy the real thing....
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reader, lovelynightmare +, writes (12 February 2009):
 Was it in a designated spam folder (if the emails do get sorted in categories) or was it lying in his general inbox?If it was his general inbox, it's more likely he asked for the email himself. Still, spam can sneak through, so ask him for THE TRUTH if it's among his regular emails.lovelynightmare
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reader, Paig67 +, writes (12 February 2009):
Hi,
Any guy that say he doesnt look at porn is likely lying. In fact the more you make of it the more he will do it. My boyfriend denied it for years until I went through his fishing bag and found magazines and dvds, our sex life was allways amazing but it didnt stop him from looking and he kept it from me for years because he knew how I would react.
I felt like I wasnt enough for him and quite hurt, but he kept doing it anyway. We split up in the end, I couldnt handle the lies and the fact he didnt care how I felt about it.
I keep in touch with him via skype, he tells me hes been surfing the sites and downloading stuff. By the description you mentioned he is likely to be looking at these sites on a regular basis. However he will probably deny it!
hope this helps.
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (12 February 2009):
 I don't know much about junk mail but I know that sometimes junk sites can buy lists of email addresses and send their shit en masse to unsuspecting inboxes all over. It could be that.
But I don't look at porn (online or otherwise) and I don't receive this sort of junk mail. I am pretty sure that the kind of junk mail you get is in some way related to websites you visit, things you show interest in (with the exception perhaps of all those viagra and weight loss emails that seem to be sent relatively indiscriminately). Someone who knows more about this will be able to comment, and perhaps correct me, but if he is receiving these emails it could be because he recently joined a porn website or because a porn website received his email from somewhere else.
Who knows which- best bet is to ask. Or just let the emails sit in his junk for a while and see if he deletes them/looks at them on his own.
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