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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for about two years in may. In about Nov I found out I was pregnant and was terrified to tell him. I tried to have it taken care of alone I couldn't afford it so I was screwed and I never told him its now feb and he's figured it out . He won't talk to me I've already found a family to adopt the child. He feels like I'm trying to trap him which I'm not and if I could take this back I would I just don't know what to do. He aparently knew for about a month and never said anything to me and acted like we were fine . I don't know what I can do to make this right please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (12 February 2009):
Your boyfriend should be the FIRST person you WANT to tell.
You shouldn't have felt you had to deal with this alone. And now he has found out and he's ANGRY with you - not because you didn't tell him but because you dared to let him impregnate you????
This guy should be begging your forgiveness for having let you go through this! Not acting like an angry 4 year old and sulking.
He has a big responsibility in all this and he is leaving it all you.
Frankly, any man who treats you like this does not deserve to be with you. He has failed as a boyfriend and I think you need to ask yourself why you think you deserve to be with such a pathetic failure for a human being?
Good Luck!! xx
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