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writes:My ex boyfriend has given me genital herpes on purpose. we broke up for a few months. he started seeing somone else, then we got back together. after two months of being happy again a friend told me the girl he'd been with had the std and had told him, AFTER HE BROKE UP WITH HER. so she gave it to him on purpose. anyways now i'm pregant to this guy and now he hates me. i'm nearly due to have my son, i kept my baby even though he did'nt want it because i know i'll never be able to sleep with anyone else un protected.i feel so betrayed that he had sex with me knowing that he had the std. i still love him so much though and want to be with him. I'm 26
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009): Are you really sure he even has it. Theirs a lot of different things that can be going on down there that arent herpes. Does it look like any of these pictures. http://yourstdhelp.com/herpes.html either way you can get tested if you don't have any symptoms. They have a blood test for it now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2009): Why did you sleep with him if you knew he had an std? Why not use protection?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni'd like to thank you's for responding to my question, i have'nt had any symptoms of the std so i'm not sure if i've got it or not, and the information i have read about it is'nt very clear. But i definately know he has it, as i've seen thr lesions. the only test avaible is one that just shows if you have come into contact with it, it doesn't nesesarily mean i will get the syptoms. its so confusing becuse i dont want to risk giving it to others. and he definately was told by the other girl that he could have the std, he just did'nt tell me :(
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (12 February 2009):
 I dont understand this, why would he hate you? Its not your fault that this happened. Are you sure the other girl told him before he slept with you, I'm just thinking maybe he didnt know?
I have a friend that this happened to years ago, and she went on to have three children, so there are plenty of things that can be done. I know its awfull, but even if you dont stay with this guy, there are many men out there that would love and understand you. Just remember to always be honest with them from the start, and get as much information as possible on how to deal with this.
Good luck sweetie XX
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2009): I feel very sorry for you. This sounds like an offence to me to knowingly do that. I'm afraid people are mentally sick when they contract something they will never get rid of and pass it on to somehow 'get back' at society. There are ways of protecting other people if you have that disease. Have you been tested for it? Is there are chance you might not have caught it? There are many ways to boost your immune system to keep it at bay if you have and I would urge you to seek more information and support at this time from a professional.
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