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writes:my partner is being really nasty just lately and i have asked whats wrong but he wont say.we have been together for over 3 years we have a daughter and another on the way and i also have a son by a previous partner.we planned this baby so i know it can not be that,i just dont know what to do and its really gettin me down.i am really considering ending my relationship its that bad. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2009): It could be any number of things. He could be stress caused by work. He may be nervous about having a baby. Best thing to do is just sit him down and calmly ask him what is wrong. Also, tell him how it is making you feel. Let us know how you get on. Good luck!
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (12 February 2009):
 Hey sweet,
We need a little more information than this... how is he being nasty? Is he saying nasty things to you, is he closing himself off and giving you the cold shoulder? Is he making you feel unattractive or inadequate? How is your physical relationship?
If you planned this baby, it seems that he saw a future with you in which you would raise a child together. Out of curiosity, why aren't you married? If you love each other enough to plan a child together, why didn't you get married? I'm not being mean, I'm just asking what the reason has been.
If you think that he's not going to be a good father or partner to you, maybe it is time to end the relationship. But, you do have a family together and it is important that you try to fix it before breaking it apart.
Good luck!
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