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writes:hi all, I would like opinions please, I have been in a relationship with a bloke for 12 years it has been a really difficult one too, I'd try and talk to him and he would tell me i was being stupid, walked away when i cried, sometimes id loose my temper and smash a cup or something he would sit calm and say i was over reacting or say now look what you've done, he got drunk and when i wouldnt let him in he kicked the door open, if i wanted to go out and his car was blocking mine he wouldnt move it, I tried to walk away but he wouldnt leave it alone, when i asked him to come bk he sed he didnt want to I was getting over it and he came back again, crying to me and being really nice and said he has changed my feelings for him are back and i dont want them. I feel like I have no control of my life if I tell him I can't meet him I have no choice but to have an hour long conversation with him saying I'm hurting him and have a lot of making up to do, or he will come to the house. I have no emotions anymore im just paranoid about everybody I don't get angry about anything at all now. i feel jealous at the thought of him having someone else. I dont understand. thanx xxx
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reader, Mrs. Mom  +, writes (12 February 2009):
 This sounds like a classic abusive relationship. Find an agency that serves battered women in your area and call them up and get some counseling.
This guy will never get any better if you keep letting him back in your life. And every time he calls you a name or kicks the door in your spirit withers a little.
Break away from him; get counseling that will wake you up as to what a real, loving relationship is and how to have the self-confidence not to accept anything less.
Good luck to you.
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