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anonymous
writes: My bf often chats with my friend on msn but he doesn't tell me. i always thought they seldom contact but they actually chat quite alot on msn. my bf will tell her things that i may not even know.i'm sad and disappointed. What should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): I've got the same problem with my bf! they're texting as well..but we aren't close!(me with the girl)
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reader, alohanikkiii +, writes (12 February 2009):
The best thing you can do is clear things up with your friend first. If she is a true friend, she'll understand where you're coming from when you say that it's weird that she's talking to your boyfriend. Maybe your boyfriend thinks that she's an alternative to talk to or maybe vent about what's troubling him with your relationship, so your friend is the best option since she knows what you're thinking. But the way this problem has to be solved is by communication, as cliche as it sounds. But if he's not admitting he talks to your friends or is trying to hide things, then he might be confused about something. Just try talking to him, hope that helped.
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