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I need confidence to get started!

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Question - (12 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i really like this guy and this guy like me we have told each other over email....

well we been talking about sexy over about my sexiy underware and how much he wants to see it on me and i really want to because its a lovely relationship we dont put any pressure onto each other on the matter. he to me he wasnt to see this and we both know where it will lead to... intrmency... we both really wont but when we meet nothing happens. i am shy about my body well not that i dont like my body i quite like it it is just the him seeing it for the first time and me showing to him for the first time.

how can i make my self more confident in doing it i mean just getting off and showing that what i want and he want but i cant get started

can u please help me please thanks you x

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A female reader, Linzii United Kingdom +, writes (12 February 2009):

Linzii agony auntOkaii ;; youve never met this boy before so i dont think you should give yourself to him just yet .

meet him and get to know him dont just show him your body because he wants it . dont do things you dont feel comfortable doing babe.

when you meet him keep your clothes on and see if he still wants to no then , if he dosent you know hes not worth it.

let me know how it goes x

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