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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am graduating high school this year and thank God for it because my school is full of backstabbing bitchy friends. Friends i have known for 5 years have either turned their back against me/have become incredibly mean to everyone else/have hurt me in the last year. I am so tired of it because everyone says that having a good support network is really important. I have become so stressed from work and all these friendship problems and I cry almost everyday by the time i get home from the exhuastion of it all. The one person who is actually there for me is my ex; he has also hurt me before so there are trust issues. He talks to me really often and we had a kinda fwb relatinship before (ended by my decision a week ago) I feel like I'm always trying to be with him because I feel like I have no one else to go to and this is becoming a problem because I think I may be falling for him again, and I don't think he will be able to reciprocate these feelings. I don't want to hang out with my regular friends because of all the shit they bring into my life now but at the same time i don't want to get too close to him again. What should i do?
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii  +, writes (12 February 2009):
 You need to find a new set of friends by the sounds of it. I know this can be hard but maybe a new club or make new friends at work (Im not sure what you do so not sure if this could apply). I know it's hard in your final year as I'm there myself but you could always hold out for your friends to realise what they have done and then move on yourself in college/uni...this is a very bitchy option and should be done with caution. Where your fwb is concerned if you don't want to fall for him then you need to find someone new, to move on and make sure he knows that you won't be coming back at a click of his fingers.
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Good luck x
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