A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:So this is a dating dilemma, sort of.I have been dating a guy for some weeks now. Things are going great between us, he admits that we have good chemistry, respect for one another etc. Though, something he is puzzling me. I will send him a txt and he does reply, but the past day he has been acting weird. He has replied to my txts though a bit later (he may be busy due to work). So, he called me today and said that the place he works for is offering him a job someplace else, and so he I didnt know what to say because I didnt want to be selfish I said that he needs to look at his ambitions and wants, and I will support his decision. I said that since I was busy with my project work at school while he called, I couldnt talk much about this till later on. So i called him, though he is at work, he said he would call back but hasnt. It is not like him, unless he is busy so Im patient rite now. Though, I have a feeling that he may be grudging about my response earlier to his job offer, and I dont want to be the person to be blamed in his decision making. So, it burns me to call him now but im waiting for him to call me. I feel that now he is ignoring me.What should I do?
View related questions:
ambition, at work, hasn't called Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (13 February 2009):
Well this job offer is obviously a big thing.
He's probably out celebrating!
It's only been a few hours so just chill out, watch a film and let him get back to you in his own time. He probably wants to get his head straight himself before he calls you so this may be the reason he's acting strange.
Plus it's Friday so he's probably busy at work and then out on the town.
Good Luck!! xx
|
