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Has he gone off me? I don't know what is going on

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Question - (12 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 February 2009)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *rincessSmithee writes:

Theres this guy i met about a month ago at the bus stop

Since then we got in touch on facebook and spoke online alot, we exchnaged numbers and i text now again.

We are blatinally intrested in each other, and hes a proper nice guy so i doubt he would be feeding other girls the same line.

weve bumped into each other twice since, and weve got on SO well.

He mentioned going to the cinema with me just over a week ago, and i was like yeah sure :)

And normally when i go ofline he always says sweet things like , hopefully il see you soon xxxxx

I was unsure wether he would follow through with his cinema offer, so i made i brought it up casually like 'if you still wanna go?' and hes like yea course :)

That was on monday

I spoke to him on wednesday again, and the converstation was less flirty and talkative as we usually are. He didnt seem flirty with me, and just felt really different from how we usually speak and when he went he said he said he had to go to a gig in town, and he will speak to me later, probz. xxxx'

Question is i am planning to text him on friday and ask if he wants to hang out this weekend, or monday.

Do you think its a good idea, or will he be put of by how the converstation was dry on wednesday?

I would wait but if i dont text him il regret it, and he probably will be intrested in somone else. (if hes not already :( )

am i just over reacting, do guys act liket his sometimes or has he gone off me?

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A male reader, Guitarist  United Kingdom +, writes (12 February 2009):

Guitarist  agony auntI think you're reading too much into it hun, he may have just had something on his mind when you spoke to him.

my advice, text him asap and just ask the guy out, if he is interested he'll say yes.

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A male reader, anoms United Kingdom +, writes (12 February 2009):

anoms agony aunttake it more slowly, if he dont wonna wait then forget him, youl be back in 2weeks saying he used you otherwise

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