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writes:hello i am 25 dating a 17 year old girl and i love her with all my heart and would do anything n this world for her happiness.she and i turn 26 before she turns 18 and we r keeping our relationship a secret except to the people we trust.we have not had sex yet so no I'm not using her i have never had a connection wit anyone else like this n my life and well the thing is i wanna know if keeping it a secret will end up pushing us away from each other and another thing is that i am friends wit her dad and i wanna know if I'm wrong for that and will it make things harder. Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (8 April 2009):
 Well it might be hard because you are friends with her dad. Maybe it would be an idea to ask him if you can "date" his daughter? If you two sneak around behind her family's back it will kick you in the shin & ass later.. Trust me.
17 and 25 is a big gap for some people. You might be imature for a 25 year old ( no offense) and she might be very mature for a 17 year old. Later in life 8 years will seem like nothing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): As long as you two are happy and in love, the rest doesn't matter. You seem to be as you are not basing your relatioship on sex-which is really lovely to hear, because it shows you have genuine feelings for her.
So what, it's eight years! If she's comfortable with it and so are you then don't worry about what everyone else thinks.
Maybe you should tell her parents though so you're not keeping it a secret, there is no reason to because you do love her. Talk to your gf about it if you're worried and all the best to you both.
Izi
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