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Am I being possesive?

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Question - (8 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 April 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now.

last fall he quit his job and is staying with family now. he calls me everyday and text me sometimes. the problem is he doesn't live that far away now and i only see him once during the week and then on the weekends.

i feel as if he should want to see me more than he does. we only saw each other on the weekends before he quit his job. he lived further away. am i wrong to feel this way?

am i being possesive? ive mentioned it to him once and he only said that he was too lazy to come in after working for his family around the house during the day.

what does this say about his stance toward me?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009):

Tell him frankly.

If he continuously calls you every day, his calling habit irritates you. His calling habit should be ended immediately.

Some people think that this calling habit is normal to them but the other people think that this calling habit is irritating.

Maybe.

does he have a problem? Working, relationship with his parents, bro & sis, etc. See him and talk to him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009):

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thanks for the feedback. i think inside i know the answer. i guess i just need to step back and let things be. i just wish he felt like i do. i want to be with him everyday.

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