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*omeoneboy
writes:hi, in my first year in college i met a girl that study with me, and i love her. we don't speak to each other or talk about something, i even didn't ask her for some books or such things, i just keep watching her hoping she notice me. i was keep watching her for very long time, gonig after her in bus, in college i evern follow her to her home. And i was doing all that hoping that she notice me and give me any sign that she may like me, and i keep telling my self that when i get the sign i will go and talk with her and tell her i like her. But nothing.. so what i have to do?Do i have to tell her now without that sign (is't good that "i like you" to be first talk with her?)or does that mean (no sign of her) that she like someone else..or what i have to do??
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reader, someoneboy +, writes (8 April 2009):
someoneboy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thanks every one but u should know something, i live i arabian country, and in arabic culture boys don't talk to girls in common. so when i want talk to her that mean to every body else that i love her and want to marry her, the problem is if i tell her and she refuse then every one in college will know all that, and thats very embarrassing i think. so if i wasn't almost sure that she may agree i can't tell her. this is the problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): Your techniques are too subtle and they wouldn't mean much to her. Maybe you should focus or divert a little bit of that energy into starting a little conversation with her, saying hi, asking her out, or something. I mean you say you love her, but that is not based on much is it. Better get to know her a little then tell her you like her. The whole watching and noticing thing will not get you anywhere.
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reader, IcyEmo  +, writes (8 April 2009):
 Okay, Not to be too Harsh or anything, But you sound like you'r Stalking this girl! If you really like her, I think you should back off a bit and just start by saying things to her like..."Hello, I was Wondering if you'd like to Join a Study group with me?" Or Invite her to Coffee, But untill then, Stop following her around, If she finds out, she Might call the Cops.
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