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writes:hi people hope some 1 can help me!im with my gf 4 nearley 2 years now and at the moment we r struggling! i tink she is depressed! she gets upset alot and she gets really down! when i try to help her then she jus turns away gets angry at me doesnt want to talk to me tells me not to ring her to jus leave her alone and this drives me absolutly crazy! i feel so helpless! if she ever decides to talk to me then ive got to drag things out of her! i really dont know wat to do it really upset me dat she jus cant tell me wats going on 4 her! i keep telling her "all i want is to be there 4 u" and im jus left in the dark!plus aswell ok by the sounds of this people are jus gonna think get rid of her and move on but i love this girl with every ounce of my heart and it tears me apart inside to see her this way! and when she drinks she treats me like shit! she gets mood swing and shes like a completly different person! says really hurtful things and the worst thing she has done was not so long ago she kicked in the windscreen of my car!am i a fool i say to myself but i know deep down that when she gets like that it not her its drink! and i for give every time! i love her so much i really do and i find myself in an awful position all i want is to help her! i know something personal happened in her past and i think mite hav something 2 do wit it!buy reading over this it sounds like shes aweful but shes not she really caring and loving person she is like she jus has emotional problems i think and im no angel myself i can also do things wrong like but im a non drinker and a recovering alcoholic and addict and it pains me to her do stuff like i sed wen she drinks!!!!!!!!!!!!! wat can i do can any1 help me!!!!!!!! please!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, niki20  +, writes (9 April 2009):
 i wasnt thinking she is an awful person, when i know alcohol can do this to the best of people. as a recovering alcoholic, do you see alcholisim in her? does she drink alot?? if you do give her you aa book and ask her if she will read some with you. or document her behavior when she flips out and play it for her when she is sober. have an intervention. i do not know the problem that she is going to that you mentioned but if it is ita "anniversary" or if its comming up chances are that is the reason.
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