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I think he may have pushed her for sex and hurt her..Should I even continue dating this guy?

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Question - (8 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 January 2010)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

About 6 days ago, A friend of mine asked me out over facebook. But not the way most People would.....He said very bluntly that he wanted to have Sex with me. I thought that he was Just being the crude Joker that his is and I said "Well as Long as this Aint a Joke...". I'm Supposted to go to his House on Friday and I'm Pretty Sure he's going to try and have Sex with me, and When others people found out, they all told me that He only wanted me for Sex, Even his Ex, Who is a Friend of mine. She Said that "He probably only wants you for Sex, and He's going to Push for it" Then she started crying, I think he may have pushed her for sex and hurt her. I've Liked this Guy for About a Year, And In the Two years I've known him he's had Two Girlfriends. I'm not Really Sure I'm Ready For Sex yet, And I just Started Dating the Guy! He's already Told me he loved me and has Tried to French kiss me. (I Didn't let him in)

Should I even continue dating this guy?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2010):

you should not date that guy anymore after all it's ur life and u r fully independent for it.he doesn't have any sense of ur feelings so just leave him.go with someone who like u as he has got a fairy in you.but he has understood u a sex machine...............

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009):

Okay, you can't be serious. What are you asking. Everyone and he, is telling you, he just wants sex from you and now you're asking if you should go. Well, if you want to be USED then go.

Any sensible girl with some self esteen would not entertain this guy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009):

NOOOOOOOOOO, and Hell NOOOOOOOOO

He has already shown his true colors.....he has no class, and he had no concern for you or your feelings, he is just a horny teenage boy looking for another conquest. He doesn't love you, he loves you as long as you give him sex.

Never give yourself away to someone you are not in a commited loving relationship with. You are too young to have your heart messed about like this.

He doesn't even sound like a friend to you.

I would be totally turned off by his behavior, aren't you?

His ex was crying because he hurt her, and she is trying to warn you about him....listen to her....you actually don't have too....he has already told you what he is after.

Be careful.

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