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writes:ommg i need help.i'm 17 and been with my b/f for about 2 yrs, it's a very good relationship and we both lost our virginity to each other but here's the problem he seems to be doing everything. i feel really guilty but everytime i try something i do it wrong, i tried a handjob found out a few days later i was doin it wrong altho he tried to help me.next problem is oral, he wants it and i want to try it but i`m scared i'm gonna do it wrong and i dont kno anything i had a very poor sex education at school and dont kno allot. and i also want to kno, when i am been pleasured i freeze i go really quiet and i dont tlk to him when he asks me questions and i dont give achnolowedgement of orgasm this needs to stop as well, but what can u do to a man sexually before sex and how do you do it?
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reader, LilPixie  +, writes (9 April 2009):
 Maybe you can try different positions? Not much that can go wrong there.If you want to give him a handjob maybe you could get him to do it himself while you have your hand over his? Or have his over yours so he can guide you until you get used to it and what you have to do...As for the oral, if you're scared you'll do something wrong try just licking him, keep your lips closed and just lick him down there, he'll love it and there really isn't much that can go wrong with that. Alone kissing him there we'll be much appreciated if you don't feel quite confident with anything else yet. With oral all you have to remember really is not to use teeth and you should be fine.Now everyone is different when they feel pleasure, i wouldn't worry about that too much for now, if you really want to change this then maybe start changing how you breathe - try breathing a lil louder/ heavier, that'll already show him that he's pleasuring you and just build it up from there.There's lots of things you can do during foreplay... spread kisses all over his body, you can eat things of each others bodies (chocolate is one of my favourties :P).I hope this helps, good luck
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