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*nthony Smith
writes:Hi, I'm a 16-year-old boy and I'm love with the most beautiful girl (In my opinion of course) there's only one problem, she's one of my best friends. She doesn't know I feel this way and I want to tell her and I want her to feel the same way however I know that she doesn't have the same feelings as I do, so I feel by telling her it would just make everything awkward and I might loose her as a friend as well. I've tried really hard to forget her but I can't get her out of my mind, she is all I think about everyday and night, which is apparently weird for a 16-year-old teen. This part really hurts and upsets me: The other night I had a dream. This dream was me and this girl asleep in bed in the future (when I'm 25 or something) anyway I hear crying of a little baby, well, my son. I kiss her on the head and go into the next room to see my baby son crying. I pick him up and cuddle him kissing him on the forehead. I then turn on the CD player and a nice, calm song plays (We are one) and I dance with my baby, kissing him on the forehead. Then "my wife" (the girl i love) is standing in the door way. she smiles and walks over, she then takes the baby and starts to dance with it, gently. I then cuddle with her and the baby, give her a kiss and then all three of us are dancing to this 'Disney' song. That's when I woke up.I know by reading that you are probably thinking I'm stupid, or pathetic, but I love her so much, it upsets me so much that I can't be with her, I mean I miss her now. I'm not 100 percent sure that she doesn't have feelings for me as she always texts me good night and she says she loves me, we always talk and the other day she wanted to watch "The Notebook" together, I don't really know whether any of those things are signs, or if its just what girl's do to any boy.I'm not used to being in love and I have my GCSE's coming up and I can't focus on them. Please help me.....I Love Her So MuchAlso does anyone have any tips on how I could find out if she likes me, or maybe how I could drop hints that I love her, to her.
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reader, roku  +, writes (8 April 2009):
 I know how you feel, and it is painful and hard to go through when you're in love with one of your best friends. Losing them is one of the biggest fear anyone who is in love with a best friend can have. Believe me, I've been there. That sounds like a very romantic dream, and a very sweet one as well. It shows that you really, really love this girl, and you want to have a future with her. Most high school loves never last, but usually if you can't get someone out of your head like that, and they're always in your thoughts and dreams, you should at least hint at the fact you like her. If you would like to find out if she likes you or not, ask her. It sounds easier said than done, but just sit her down and explain you feel like she sort of likes you because of the texting and "I love you". Explain that it would be okay, and it wouldn't make things awkward.If she's doing this only to you, she probably most likely has a crush on you. The Notebook is a very romantic movie. Just follow your instincts and ask her if she has any feelings for you. Or, tell her you like her but explain that if she didn't like you back, it wouldn't make things awkward. When you love someone, you don't want to lose everything, so sometimes just being friends is a precious opportunity. if my answer is too long and confusing, I apologize. But, just take baby steps on showing her you like her. smile at her and offer her things that nobody else would normally, and make her feel important. I hope things go well in the future for you and your friend.
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