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writes:I recently had unprotected sex with my boyfriend, and i feel i might be pregnant. the problem is that my boyfriend for a year is telling me to get an abortion. i was stunned as he always talked about me having his first child. he's calling me every minute to check up on me but i thought i would be the one to be talking about this. im so hurt he said that he wanted a baby when i was 19 but right now i feel like i don't want to give him a child ever. its all his fault im pregnant in the first place cause i told him not to ejaculate in me but he did anyways. he doesn't have a job as yet and said that when he have a child he wants to give the baby everything including a room, tricycles and brandname clothes. is he looking out for us and the baby or is he just a damn bimbo?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): He is very selfish. No way can he provide for a baby at this point. However, its not TOTALLY his fault. Why did you not insist he use a condom? - If he refused to (if any man ever refuses to wear one, then you say "sorry, no sex" and that's it.)If you do not want this baby then give it some thought, but I'd say you may have to decide on an abortion. Sad, yes, and a hard thing to do, but you don't have a lot of choice. You are very young - too young to be bringing up a baby by yourself and being responsible for the child for at least the next twenty years or so. It would not be good to bring a child into the world when it would be so hard for the baby to have a good upbringing (which all babies deserve).If you do have an abortion, you'd better do it very very soon - like NOW.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): Bimbo all the way, I can relate to you. I had a boyfriend just like that. He lied and came in me to, no job & 3 kids. He is now my ex, I made a choice to get rid of my baby which was a painful mistake I think about it alot but I moved on and now have a better guy who understands me, some what. Point is you don't need that headache toss that guy out and move on to better things. You dont have to get rid of the child but that is something you need to think about not in a short time either. He is looking out for himself and by him ejaculating in you shows he is not trustworthy or respectful of your feelings. Please move away from the scum.
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