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writes:ok so i have been going out with my bf for just over a year now. my bf ("C") has always known that i have been really close with his brother ("R") but it has only been a friendly jokey type of thing if you no what i mean, its just like hugs and kisses acting as if we are in love when actually we aren't.the problem is that "R" has told me he wants me to dump "C" for him! i really like "R" and if im totally honest im closer to him than i am to "C" and i don't no what to do. i love "C" a lot but i love "R" more.what do you think i should do??do you think its worth risking my relationship for this??thanx for any advice given!! Reply to this Question
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reader, francy  +, writes (8 April 2009):
gal, it is not fair to love two brothers , even though you made it clear that you love "R" YOU SHOULD NOT GO FOR HIM AT ALL! try keeping distant from the two of them, and see how things goes.. hey in some way i think "R" is a snitch and those type of people are never satisfied with single relationships they always insist on asking out girls continuously. or if i may ask do want to be cheated on after you agreed to leave "C" for him? so be wise and do what is good for you, besides you can not let "R" betray his brother in an issue involving you. thats evil.... hope i helped. i experienced the same situation where by i had to choose between two cousins that i thought i loved equally.
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reader, Rajesh Nair  +, writes (8 April 2009):
 Hi Minnie, it's quite a tricky situation here. If I were you, I'll honestly doubt the intentions of a person who tries to snatch away his brother's girlfriend. The fact that "C" has never had any doubt about the relationship between you and "R", speaks a lot about the trust and respect he holds for you. Think twice before dumping him. You may loose an excellent guy.In case you find that "C" is not the right guy for you, let him know the reasons for it. Respect him and respect the bond you share. As for "R", its really your choice. Do you really trust this guy to be loyal to you, when he isn't being loyal to his brother?Think about it. :)
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