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writes: ok i have a big problem now and i don't know what to do so i'm confusedi have been dating someone for two weeks now and he is so serious with me but the problem is that i lied to him about my picture, i sent to him another persons picture without knowing he was seriousnow he want us to meet and he is ready to come to my country next week so plz what should i do i don't know he was so serious and i love the way he used to call me on phone every day sent me emails and many of his pictures too he cares a lot about me.i'm afraid he will not be happy with me and again he might not like me when see my real picture and may decide not to come againplz i need urgent help he's planning to come to my country by coming Saturday what should i do?mind you: we are gay he is 25 and i'm 20i'm sorry i lied for him Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): I think you had better come clean and send him a photo of yourself and check he still wants to come over. It could be he prefers your personality anyway. Lies are no basis for a relationship, you need trust from the start.
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (8 April 2009):
 yeah i totally love wondering cats idea
m sure he will find it adorable
but yeah before he sees u in real do send him a pic of u
if u love him and this is the man you want to be with then dont hide what u look like..
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reader, chazx  +, writes (8 April 2009):
 I agree with wondering cat thats a brilliant idea.
Learn from this hun :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): Why on earth would you sned a picture of someone else? Sounds like you lack confidence in yourself. To be honest just tell him you were going through your sent mail and noticed you attached the wrong picture. And attach the correct one - saying this picture is alot better! The humour might lighten the "error".
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reader, wonderingcat +, writes (8 April 2009):
 How good is your sense of humour? or his, for that matter? If he is good humoured, try this: send him a picture of an animal (an elephant, or a giraffe, or a gorilla, or an orangutan, or an ostrich) with a note that says "I don't look like the picture I sent you earlier and this is the real me". Then drop a strong hint that you have a self confidence issue initially, but now realized that it was wrong to send him a photo of someone else. Don't send him your picture first, until you get his reply.
Hope that helps.
Cat
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reader, lilmissnabs +, writes (8 April 2009):
dear sorry,
The only advice i can give you is tell him the truth and explain to him why you did it nd how sorry you are if he gets annoyed and never talks to you thats his loss because he should be able to see how sorry you are and that you never intended for it to go that far.
signed
lilmissnabs
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reader, Guitarist +, writes (8 April 2009):
 you'll have to tell him. yeah he'll most likely be annoyed with you but if he's serious about you then he'll forgive you. just tell him, i think he deserves the truth before he comes all the way to see you.
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