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male
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30-35,
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writes:omg.. where to begin..well im 17, a senior in high schoolhe's 18 and a college freshman.we'll I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 9 monthsand everything was perfect in the beginningwe were together all the time..we never ever argued..but when he moved in the dorms everything changed.i always had to text him first. i always have to call him first.if i don't do it.. then we would've ever talk!and it makes me sad and frustrated cause i can completely understand if he's busy with school or homeworkbut if he's just in one of his friends rooms..having a blast.. not even thinking about me..when i'm back home waiting for his phone call or text..wondering what he's doing.. it makes me feel like he doesn't care.when we argue.. he just says whatever.. ill talk to you later.or walks away..and it gets real frustrating..i love him so much but he doesn't even act like HE does..he can be so selfish sometimes and it bothers me..like if i were to sit here and say "its over, i never wanna talk to you again"he would be like "ok"and go about his life.and i hate it!i wanna just leave him!but its really hard for me..im one of those dependent people.. i can admit to that.if he's gone im crying but if im gone he's having fun carelessly?idk what i should do..i wish there was something i can do to give him a reality check..i tried everything!i told him he's gonna lose me if he keeps this up..i've tried doing the same thing he does and not talk to him for long periods of time...but yet i get really impatient and end up begin the one that calls him!i feel i can't do anything else cause im always thinking about him..i need help =(
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): He's entered a whole new world, one where high school seems like forever ago kid stuff. Very few relationships can survive that shift, where one goes off to college while the other finishes high school. It sounds like he's moving on. You probably should too.
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