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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:If you get raped does it affect your muscles? In a mans terms does getting raped make you "loose"?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): Having sex one time, rape or otherwise, does not make you loose. Having lots of sex with one partner or lots of sex with lots of partners would be far more likely to make you "loose" down there. You will find that if you go a while without having sex (several months or longer) that you may actually be uncomfortably tight down there the next time you do. Not nearly as bad as your first time, but a similar sort of feeling
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (8 April 2009):
 As the other respondents have stated, the act of rape is rarely anything to do with sex or lust - it is a matter of power and control often perpetuated by individual's with personality disorders (low empathy towards others). If by 'loose' you mean a woman considered promiscuous then I would say any man (or woman) thinking that way would be deeply ignorant about the criminal act of rape. Anyone that judgemental is surely not a great partner! If you mean anatomically 'loose' from having experienced intercourse then, again, this would indicate a lack of sensitivity and awareness on the part of the other person. Women who have babies or very many acts of sexual intercourse sometimes become 'loose' but there are exercises that can be done at home to improve matters or even surgery for individuals very much concerned about it! A single act of sex would not affect your muscle tone unless the rape involved traumatic physical violence in that area. Consensual sexual activity is about rather more than how tight you are.
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reader, FroggieGman +, writes (8 April 2009):
Ifyou were raped, you sorta did NOT have the option of having sex. Any fool that thinks you're loose because you were raped is indeed a fool.
A loose girl is one that has sex with every guy she goes out with.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (8 April 2009):
 I agree with the anon female reader.
No.
Some women are raped for being in the wrong place at the wrong time. Rape is not about sex. It's about lack of empty, power, hate, fury... you name it.
Rape is rape is rape and it's still a horrifying thing to do and to have to go through.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): ABSOLUTELY NOT!
What a ridiculous idea. Any guy who thinks that is a misogynist. There are no "man's term's" and "woman's terms" here. And "loose" is just a word that shows a man's ignorance and insensitivity.
Have you been raped? If so, your first concern is reporting the offender, not worrying about the status of your now-compromised vagina :/
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