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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok, Well i'm Scared to admit it I am in love with to girls I have known one for about lets say 7 months and the other about 3-4 maybe 5 months total the first woman lets call her (awkwardkitty) and the one I know less (jynxy) please note these are made up names, I am having issues with picking which one to stay with I know I have been dating both secretly and its wrong but the reason to that is (awkwardkitty) left for a longtime and now has returned in to my life I have been with her for majority of my time (jynxy) how ever has been busy and is currently losing her home being rent is too much but what is hard is I love them both SO much, and (jynxy) will be at her parents for a bit to she gets back on her feet once she does im suppost to move in with her but there is also the possiblity of moving in with the other over time, I have tryed to sit alone daily and desided who do I love more, who is best who would I be happyer with to spend my life with, being (awkwardkitty) has just recently come back and I am overly joyed but I must choice one, can someone help me please if possible make the answers something to help I have asked alot of people before hand but they all say I should live my life and I dont want the usual comments of your young i'm 19 and I live by one golden rule (Live everyday like its your last) and i'll help this a bit more I know for me both of them are the one. but which? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): Ok, so you live every day as your last-so what if this was your last day, who would you like to spend it with more and for what reason?Honestly who is the first person you think about when you wake up and the last when you go to sleep?Truthfully, they can't both be your One, you only have One, hence the name! However, I doubt either of them are or else you would have no doubt in your mind who to be with, but for now, go with who you prefer spending time with, who would you like to spend your last day with?Also, I totally disagree with you seeing them both, i expect neither of them will be happy to hear that you've been stringing them both along,so quit two timing and settle for one.All the bestbella
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