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Have I made the right decision by leaving?

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Question - (8 April 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 April 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi, im a 21year old girl, and im very confused with my life and i need some advise from people. my past is very hard, i had a baby 2 years ago with the guy i loved and shortly after my baby was born she passed away due to an illness. since then me and my partner have been helping each other get through ths with the odd arguments then it turned into big arguments,he was being so cruel and nasty to me i couldnt understand it when i was in love with him.

one night i persuaded him to create a bebo site and everything seemed really good we were talking to friends and family and enjoying bebo, untill one night we had a serious argument i went onto his bebo and found that he had over 20 conversations with girls planning to meet them and that he was leaving me for them, i felt like my heart had jumped out my body and that i had died.

9months later after all eforts on my half trying to get him to see sence he finally then wanted me back and i got back with him.everything was going really great but i was so paranoid he was out doing stuff with them that i felt the relationship was suffering.

We eventually started to move on and my friend tells me he loves me so i told my boyfriend and it all went horribly wrong, he was saying i was being different with him since iv found out.

I had an argument with my boyfriend and he hit me so i packed my stuff and left, im at my friends now staying as i have nowere else to go and i feel sad lonely and im crying constantly and thinking about him i just dont no what to do, have i made the right decision by leaving? if so why do i feel ill?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2009):

Yes you did! With time your pain will go away sad to say but it will.

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A female reader, IcyEmo Canada +, writes (8 April 2009):

IcyEmo agony auntThis Guy Sounds like a Real Jerk to me. I Think that you Did what you had to and I Hope you'r Alright. If he ever Hit's you I think you should call the Cops. My Mother's Friend put up with far too much abuse before she called anyone, and I don't ever want anyone to be hurt like that again.

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A male reader, someoneboy Syrian Arab Republic +, writes (8 April 2009):

well i think you did the right thing. so you have to believe in your self cause such one is not good for you, keep donig your best in your life and keep on. you will find the right one for you if you live your life as you have to.

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