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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:me and my boyfriend haven't been going out for long but i think hes getting bored of me because he always talks to his friends but hardly to me but on msn hes really nice to me and says he misses me all the time but when i actually see him hes acts differently then he does on msn. is he bored of me? help please
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (8 April 2009):
I dont think hes bord of you i think he finds it hard being around you so he uses the easy option- the internet to chat to you and be honest with you. Guys find it hard to be themselves when they are actually with the peron they like so they act different and you cant read their signals as well If you know the real him then this shouldnt be a problem and you shoul just talk to him about it tell him how he changes and you dont know why this is. Guys are the same when they are with their mates, they have to have the cool act going and keep it running smoothly even if they end up looking like a willy they will carry on if they think its an 'impressive' look that helps them fit in.
Just because he acts ifferent doesnt mean hes bord! He obviously struggles with how to be and it could indicate you dont know each other all that well? the more you talk and get to know him the easier he will be around you (vice versa.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): He's not necessarily bored of you. He might be nervous around you and when your on msn you can't see how he's acting and so on so it's easier for him to play it cool. Maybe he doesn't want you too see him all nervous and he's trying to cover it up.
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