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male
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I think i have fallen in love with someone who i met on this site. How do i ask her out? How do i maintain a long distance relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): It's easy to get attached to someone who gives you emotional support. But don't forget that is only what it is and don't read something into it unless you have seen definite signs that she is interested in you.By the way I don't think it's me as I haven't been on here for ages!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI Have been friends with her for weeks. I know almost everything about her and vice versa
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know it isnt a dating site but me and this girl got talking and flirting and she likes me and i like her so...
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reader, salvadda  +, writes (9 April 2009):
 Your letter interested me, very much. I was wondering how old this person is?
Since you said it was a long distance relationship, how would you manage to out with her?
Anyway back to my opinion. It is very hard to maintain a long distance relationship, of love. It is hard for anyone. I'm not making light of your feelings btw. I would like you to consider a few things.
Since it is long distance think of the time you can not be with her? Think of life going on you there and her where ever she may live. A relationship needs some kind of phyical connection. Sometimes words alone are not enough.
Do you know what kind of life she has now? Do you know if she is even single? Do you yet know her likes or dislikes? Do you know if she is even wants a relationships? You do need to find some things out, before offering your heart.
Maybe you can start a friendship first. Take it *very* slow and find out more about her. It will not hurt if you try to know more about her. You can both find out about eachother.
You said she was an "agony aunt" which means she is in here as I am stating her opinion.
I am not saying this to change your mind, or telling you you are wrong in how you feel. I am only trying to give you something to think about. If anything at all I would not like to see your feelings hurt.
I am sure you are very wonderful person. A good hearted person. I would just suggest that you don't rush into anything.
In the mean while don't stop living. Go out enjoy youself. Go out with friends, and don't give up anything. There is no harm, in going out to have fun. Live in now, where you are at.
There is nothing wrong with folling your heart. I am only saying don't put yourself on hold. You are young and also need to do things with ppl/friends.
I know I didn't give you much information maybe not what you wanted to hear. I did however give you my honest opinion, with good intention in mind.
Take care & good luck.
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