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writes:you see my girlfriend turns 18 on May first while i turn 17 in August. We have been together for about 2 years and couldn't be happier. We are planning on moving in together when she turns 18.(her parents aren't exactly happy with our relationship) We've been having sex now for about a year and a half using just condoms. Last month her period started around the 2nd or 3rd of the month and while i understand a fair bit about the cycle i'm still worried. Matter of fact we are both quite worried.Neither of us want to abort but as we are both young with only part time jobs we would have a hard time paying for a child. Our parents are both rather broke. I dont feel comfortable bringing a child into the world in which it cannot be properly cared for.I would never pressure her into having the abortion but i dont know what to do. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, HelpingHand7 +, writes (11 April 2009):
HelpingHand7 is verified as being by the original poster of the question ok so it turns out that it was just a false alarm for some reason she was like 5 days late on her period and now we know she isn't pregnant and now we are going to be going in the next few weeks to get her the depo shot that lasts for about 3 months then she will get another that last 5 years so thanks for all your advice and help it really helped ease mine and my girlfriends mind
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reader, HelpingHand7 +, writes (10 April 2009):
HelpingHand7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell this morning she started her period so i guess shes not pregnant, only about a week late.
I'd like to thank everybody who helped me.
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reader, HelpingHand7 +, writes (10 April 2009):
HelpingHand7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell as it is if i every eat out its from the value menu personally ive been living of about 2 cups of cup o' noodles a day which is really quite cheap.
Well we've got about 2 months or so to clearly think about all of our options and make the best decision possible
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reader, HelpingHand7 +, writes (10 April 2009):
HelpingHand7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIf it wasnt for the money issue we would like nothing more than having a child
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reader, HelpingHand7 +, writes (8 April 2009):
HelpingHand7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy girlfriend and i have the same mind set about the situation, we both hate the idea of aborting or adoption
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reader, HelpingHand7 +, writes (8 April 2009):
HelpingHand7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe have only been using a condom, no matter how all of this turns out we will be more cautious and will use multiple forms of pregnancy prevention.
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reader, HelpingHand7 +, writes (8 April 2009):
HelpingHand7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSince neither myself of my girlfriend want to go through with an abortion i believe the second most logical choice is adoption. At the same time i cannot see anyone other than myself and my girlfriend raising this child no matter how logical it may be.
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reader, Mariela +, writes (8 April 2009):
 It is hard to bring a child to these world in those conditions but think about it you are young but you do no that sex has consequences ans killing an indefensive thing is not good its always going to be in your mind....so in my opinion i think you should have the baby its not fair that you take its life away....yeah you are young but you can always ask for help or even give it up for adoption there is families who are willing to take care of it,,,,but i just think you guys should have it and take responsability about it....
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