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writes:I have been dating this 23 year old guy for over a month and he still won't ask me to be his girlfriend. In the time that we spend together, he treats me really well, better than I have ever been treated before, but he is always horny and wants to have sex. I asked him if that's all he wanted from me and he got upset and said "If that's the kind of guy you think I am, maybe we shouldn't waste our time and end it now." I said that I only think that because he hasn't made any commitment to me and he said that's because he "still doesn't know" whatever that means. He knows I only have sex with my boyfriend and if he was my boyfriend, the I MIGHT consider it. So why cant he ask me already? Is he afraid of commitment or something?
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reader, jellybeans +, writes (8 April 2009):
I am turning 23 and I am facing exactly the same problem!!! The guy I like is nice to me. We've been hanging out for a little bit over a month, we kissed this week, and he wanted to reach under my shirt but I stopped him. Now he is mad at me because I could not stop asking him wether he liked me for real or he was playing with me. I mean, if he is not ready to be my bf, he sholdn't have kissed me or intended to get physical with me. I don't have to marry every single person I date but I prefer only getting intimated with people who have the right intention about our relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): Honey, I sympathize. Let me ask you this, how many relationships have you been in that actually are physically paced. If he "claims" to not be the type of guy maybe he really does like you and not want to take advantage. I'm guessing you've dating your share of assholes (what girl hasn't?) so this is probably all new to you. Think about it this way. You've been dating a month. 31 days in a month, chances are pretty good that you don't see him everyday sooo you've probably hung anywhere from 6-15 times. Enjoy the beginning of a relationship, stop worrying. And as far as horniness is concerned, least you know he's normal
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