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*imisoph3
writes:i like this guy in my class but his pretty weird but really cute..he always makes fun of me and idk if that means he likes me..today he was like "hey babe" to me i turned red and i was like "im not ur babe"(smiling) then before the class ended,he said i should shave my face because he could see the little hairs on my face,it was really mean i wanted to punch him and i was pretending that i would and i actually did..haha he diserves it.then the guy behind him said i was beautiful and of course the guy i like looked at me and kinda smiled and didnt say anything..then the guy behind him was like stop fliring might as well go out and i was like "hell no" and the guy just smiled then the smile faided away.he flirts wit me everything,in the class if i dont say hi he would say hi to me first.i think he likes me but i'm trying to figure out if he does why does he make fun of me like that?? :,(..is he joking around or am i jut waising my time
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (8 April 2009):
 hun he's a young lad boy's are all silly it takes years for them to mature!he's probably being like that because his mates are around him and it's not "cool" for guys to like girls at such a young age.but try and get his msn address or aim and talk to him bout it see what happens.talk to him on your own see what he's like.Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): Hi.It sounds like this must be really confusing for you! You are pretty sure that this guy likes you, yet you don't understand why he behaves the way he does and is sometimes mean to you.I wonder if you are both perhaps a bit shy around each other? If so, it can feel a bit awkward and uncomfortable, and sometimes it can be easier to tease the other person and be really casual. That way, you are both noticing each other, but are able to keep things really light and playful. Unfortunately, as you have discovered, it also causes confusion!I also wonder if you are both perhaps just so used to being like this around each other that you both now expect it, and just naturally fall into those kinds of roles.Maybe this guy is nervous, and doesn't quite know what to say to you. If his friends are around, that can often make it more difficult, because he probably wants to be seen as cool by them!I am wondering what it is you would like from this guy. Although it sounds confusing for you right now, it is good that you appear to feel fairly comfortable with him. Perhaps you could try chatting to him one day, when his mates are not around, and see how it goes? That way, you will be able to get to know each other a bit better.However, if the comments he makes starts to hurt you or upset you, I would consider if you would still like to keep trying for somebody like that. After all, you desreve somebody who will treat you nicely and make you feel good, not hurt you.Hopefully, with a little more time, things will become a bit more clear for you, and you will be able to decide about this guy.Look after yourself.-Sam.
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