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writes:Is showing a bit of flesh during a date (number 2) acceptable...m just talking about a bit of my back . . .i dun wanna come across as too desperate or something Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey thanks everyone! So a little bit of back it will be :D. I chose a nice dress as we are going out for dinner tonight :D. I don't want to show off but it looks so good that he'll love it.
Oh my gosh i am so terribly infatuated;aren't i?
Ty once again!!
XOXO
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (6 March 2011):
 I think showing off your back is absolutely classy with a little sex appeal. Men love it when you wear open back tops, or cut outs. Go for it, it's not inappropriate at all.
Showing off your back is the new cleavage!
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (6 March 2011):
 I wouldn't take that as desperate, I would look at that as confidence that you are comfortable with yourself. Know if you had a short skirt on with a short top and a thong showing that would be a different case.
What you are describing is a way to show off and make it very natural and beautiful while still giving the guy something to think about.
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reader, hotinlove +, writes (6 March 2011):
A little bit of back sounds ok, as long as its not your whole backside you should be fine!
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (6 March 2011):
 Uhm if its a dress you are wearing or a shirt thats fine. if for some reason you plan on lifting up your shirt then thatll be awkward. but an outfit that shows a lil is perfectly fine and not desperate at all! Good Luck!
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reader, KisstiLuv  +, writes (5 March 2011):
 I think it really depends on what kind of image you want to put across.
You know like you see girls out wearing leather mini skirts and low tops ect you immediatly get an idea in your head about what kind of girls they must be.
What kind of top you thinking with a bit of flesh at the back ?
I think it definetly depends on where your going out. Cause if you dont dress for the ocassion you may risk looking desperate..
But i also strongly believe you should also just dress as the real' you; cz u want some1 to like you for you dont you, just the way you are.
Hope this helps :) Kirsty x
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reader, SweetSmoochy +, writes (5 March 2011):
 Are you talking about your wardrobe? In that case, consdier your man. Is he conservative? Is he pretty relaxed? If he's fairly relaxed, I don't think a little back showing is going to hurt anything. He'll most likely think you look very pretty. However, if you are legitimately concerned, worried you'll really send the wrong message, or think you'd be uncomfortable, you really shouldn't. Wait a couple more dates to show off that pretty halter top/dress.
If you're talking on the physical front, (which it doesn't seem like you are, but just in case) I wouln't. It's a bit early if you want to make a relationship, even just a laid back one.
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