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writes:Recently, I got back with my partner after a 3 year split. I love him with all my heart, but I don’t trust him. He’s been ringing his ex girlfriend and I don’t know if he’s meeting up with her behind my back. It’s driving me insane. I’m constantly phoning him and checking on him. He has my trust 100%, but I don’t feel I get it back from him. Please give me some advice on what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2011): Yeah if he is still contacting her in any way, chances are he isnt over her and as a result will wholly ruin any relation with you since she is still in the picture. Not to mention he may carry some past issues with her onto the relationship with you which isnt healthy. Ill advise you break things off here as I sense a lot of mixed emotions and I dont want you to get hurt in any way. Good luck on this.
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reader, Abella  +, writes (6 March 2011):
 he is not over her if he is still in contact with her. Why on earth did he get back with you?
He may trust you 100 per cent, even though he may be irritated by your lack of trust in him.
But you certainly have your suspicions and you currently have big reservations about him.
Was trust and jealously a factor in your previous relationship.
I am sorely tempted to just suggest you break up again and find a 100 percent faithful guy prepared to respect the boundaries in being that faithful.
But instead i will suggest you sit down with him and ask some serious questions about his commitment To you and his boundaries and what are deal breakers in a relationship
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