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51-59,
*icole1231
writes: I have been in a relationship with a married man for 6 yrs and never met but plan to meet this year. It is a long distance affair and we agreed to be honest with each other as honesty is what I can have from him. Yes, he doesn't give me hopes, he sets his limitations, he emotionally supports me and at times financially supports me only in emergency cases.I had ups and downs in my life and sometimes my life's predicaments are too unbearable but he is the only person who stands by me and supports me. A support that my family never did to me, a kind of support that my ex-husband never did to me. He is always there and never leaves me alone except when it comes to his private life I am off limits.My question, after all those years with him and I am off limits to his private life...he hardly shares. Is this married man really loves me or just have me as his play thing in the internet?
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reader, sebaslookingforward +, writes (5 March 2011):
Move on!!! This man is a cheater, im sorry for his wifeBeing supportive online is easy. Dont take it seriously
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (5 March 2011):
You are only his Internet plaything- and you don't even have a relationship with him ! you never met in 6 years !Oh sure, he has been "supportive "- it's so easy to be supportive from a physical and psychological distance, all you have got to do is being good with words and throw your way afew "sensitive " e-mails here and there , and in your case, he is also throwing your way some money if you have emergencies. Good- at least he's not a tightwad, this we know . But what else do you really know about him ? Nothing except that he is a liar and a cheater. I think that after 6 years of that, it's time for a reality check....
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