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writes:is it true that a woman who has been with her partner for a given period, and where he has a small penis, would she get sick of it after a while and wish for a man with a bigger penis ?Because after a while does her vagina get bigger to the point where she just wouldnt feel him inside her? Then would she want to get a man with a bigger pebis, especially after giving birth?Does the vagina gets wider? Is there any woman who could confirm that this is the situation !! i really want to know about this penis size thing. Of course i hear every one saying size doesn't matter. And that it's all about how you use it. But is that really true? I mean yes it does make sense for a while, but when you really think about it , then it's completely different !!
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (6 March 2011):
 A woman will never tire of a man with a 3, 4, 5, inches. That's true. If you had to choose, would you rather have a 3 inch man, with a good career, gentle and loving, or a 6 inch man, with a good career, gentle and loving? Can you really say that it doesn't matter?
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reader, empty-1  +, writes (5 March 2011):
wake up and smell the coffe beans! of course size matters!Anyone who tells you size doesn't matter is repeating one of the oldest lies the world has ever known, a lie created to placate the ego of very powerful, very rich men in a completely male dominated society, many of whom had rather lackluster equipment.Truth be told, 70% of women cannot orgasm purely from penetrative stimulation. That is a far cry from saying they don't enjoy the fullness and thrusting. It is also a far cry from saying they cannot orgasm from internal stimulation, it's just that the thrust, remove, repeat pattern doesn't get them over the top. G-spot stimulation will get a woman over the top, and it's internal, but it's also pretty difficult to do with a penis. moreso with one that has the proportions of a pencil.most men are sized between 5 to 7 inches. Most women prefer men between 5.5 to 7.5 inches. This is no accident! We, as a species have developed to prefer the proportions of the opposite sex of our own species. This is a biological imperetive, so the species can be propogated!Most women would find anything over 8" uncomfortable, and pushing 10" downright painful. Bear in mind that there tends to be a proportional increse in girth that comes along with the increase in length.Also bear in mind that delivering a child may or may not impact this at all. When a woman is preparing for birth, her cervical muscles contract powerfully to stretch the birthing canal over time, preparing for a single event that id quite temporary. The skin, especially in this area, is quite elastic, and will return to pre birthing condition in a matter of a few months. Ironically enough, it is highly unlikely that she will want to be sexual with her mate during those first few months anyway, as many of the emotional and hormonal needs she once had that drove her towards a mating instinct are being biochemically redirected to her mothering instinct. Breastfeeding, for example, provides many of the same hormonal responses as orgasm, and her libido will be nonexistant for awhile.Then, there is the possibility of tearing and / or episiotamy. In that case, the healing will leave her tighter than she was before, and her partner will need to be very careful with her when they first do become intimate again."Also women are afraid of being told they are shallow, or sluts. "This is the reason that women continue to propagate the lie that 'size doesn't matter'. They still haven't figured out that they've been running the show since WWII and are so busy playing a twisted cross between fairy tale princess and victim of some fictional male dominated patriarchy that they have begun believing their own propaganda and media. Now they really feel like victims, and can't even consider being honest with the world about their sexual preferences, because they're so afraid of being labeled as 'bad girls'. Women can't let go of the source of their moral superiority, because they think it is the only source of power they have.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2011): people have been telling you the truth.Truly the vagina does not wear out or get bigger nor wider nor deeper from multiple insertions of the husband's penis over many years.And making love is about so much more than the penis. First and foremost the brain and the surface area of your skin should considered aas It is above the whole relationship. If a man is caring, respectful, faithful, honest and loving then the woman who loves him will never tire of his penis be it 3inches, 4inches, 5inches and so on.You misunderstand a man and woman sexual relationship if you think women are so shallow as to trade in a man just based on his penis size.I do recall one woman i knew once crying because her husband handled her unkindly and was arrogant. And his penis had too much length and radius for her, and in the end she found his far too big penis (for her) too upsetting so she divorced him. So too a big a penis can upset some womenIt is my view that more times, not less times making love keeps the vagina in great supple shape with great muscle tone. And a great deal of foreplay leads to very good lubrication and all this facilitates many good orgasms. You cannot satisfy a woman adequately without a great deal of foreplay for the woman. And once intercourse starts a man will never satisfy a woman if he just focuses on his penis. Satisfying a woman during intercourse IS all about how he uses his eyes, ears, nose, mouth, lips, voice, his kisses, his tongue, his lips, how he listens, responds, his eye lashes, his fingers AND his penis and how he thrusts, probes, plays, moves etc his penis. And all the time working in unisom with a woman he cares about. And the better and more attentively and caringly he loves her - then she will respond at the same time in a similar way.When a woman comes with a strong orgasm then He should feel her vaginal walls contract and release and contract and release in a gentle ripple as she starts her orgasm. Such muscle use keeps the vagina tight. And a woman can bounce back quickly from child birth after about six weeks after baby has arrived. If she has stitches and some healing required that time will be longer. I know for a fact that I am telling you the truth. I have had children. I can assure you than none of my friends think our vagina is any larger than when we were teens. I small size tampon is still a tight fit for me and i am late 30s.And penis size? On a medical tv program recently i saw the smallest penis I haveever seen. It was a full size adult man with a one inch penis (erect). But they gave him an.operation to give him a two inch penis. So be thankful that is not you. Flacid all one could see of his penis was the head of his penis peeping out.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (5 March 2011):
After childbirth it is a vulnerable time for a woman. Her body changed and she becomes insecure and feels unattractive. I did not plan to have a C section. I cried in the hospital when I signed the consent form. Afterwards I was happy because it did not change the tightness. If a woman is concerned about the tightness she can request having it sewn in. She could also do Kegel exersizes like using a ben wa ball. I know, what's a ben wa ball and who's going to use it?Your question. It's both a lie and truth. Every woman is different. For women who had never given birth and experienced larger penises and go back to a smaller penis, they wouldn't know the difference. My mom gave birth naturally. She said sex didn't change too much. My dad is the only man she's had. A woman who has had only one man in this life should not answer this question.For me, a good size (6-7) inches is important. But I am not going to say what works for me works for other people too. You have to gather like hundreds of responses like in those magazines.I believe the following is the biggest lie ever told. Notice I say believe, because I can't prove otherwise.70% of women can't orgasm internally. This is just something that men use to absolve from the responsibility to try harder. Why would God create only 30% of women to feel pleasure?Some women try to make you feel better because, what are you supposed to do with a new knowledge that women prefer bigger penises? Are you going to sulk, look for virgins, and refuse having children?Also women are afraid of being told they are shallow, or sluts. As a woman I am also concerned about this. If I have a child again I would not hesitate to elect doing C section again.
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