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writes:My Older brother is dating this girl and i dont like her at all. Its not that she is horrible to me but she's changed him completely and had kinda turned him against me and my family as she tells him were not a proper family etc. just because our mum has a full time job; unlike hers. she has also stopped him from going to Uni this year and now they are planning to move in with each other at the end of this year even though neither of them have jobs. They have already started getting stuff for the flat like kitchen ware, however we have recently had some of our kitchen stuff gone missing :/ My brother is not the type to do this at all, hes changed a lot these past 8 months and doesnt feel likes he's more brother anymore, we used to be really close. I've tried talking to him but it hasn't worked and i dont know what else to do. I want to break them up as, i feel this is the best thing to do and really cant stand her, even though i have to be nice to her to the face. Any ideas of how to do this, or what to do instead?!? Reply to this Question
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reader, AlwaysHereToHelp! +, writes (7 March 2011):
 Hello :) Well she does sound horrible, but unfortunately sometimes people can be so blinded by love that they just can't see what is wrong with their partner like your brother.Maybe you should tell your mother about how you think your brother has changed. Perhaps he might listen to her instead of you or does your brother have any friends you know? You could speak to them and find out their opinion on this girlfriend and see if they could get through to him, but I am afraid in these situations sometimes it's best just to let him find out the hard way. Perhaps after a while he will come to terms with how much he has changed or see that this new house won't work as neither of them have got a job. And for the kitchen ware, ask him what items he got for his new kitchen. If it is exactly the same as what went missing, then you should tell your mother about your suspicions and perhaps she can knock some sense into him. Hope this helps ;)
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