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writes: I like a girl at my college. We get on really well when we are together. The thing is her friends all think their popular and feel they look down on me. What should i do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, The Realist +, writes (5 March 2011):
When you are with her friends hold your head up and be confident so they aren't any better than you. Talk to them like they are no one special because really they aren't and this should get them to respect you more and be more accepting.
Anyone can be the cool group because it is all in your head. If this girl likes you she will be on your side and these people will accept you so that you can get closer to her. It's really about not caring what they think and there is no reason to anyway. She's the one that likes you and the friends will have to go alone with it or it will make her unhappy but it helps to stand on your own too.
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reader, StarryEyes101 +, writes (5 March 2011):
Who cares what her friends think? They are probably no better than you or me.
Try to get her on her own, ask her if she'd like to hang out sometime and exchange numbers. Sounds like you get on really well. Don't let her friends stop you.
I hope this helps =)
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