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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend says i act like a kid. So how can i act more my age? Reply to this Question
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reader, live2loveandlearn +, writes (5 March 2011):
It depends on in what manners you are "acting like a kid". Have you asked your boyfriend about what specific traits you possess seem childish to him? For example, maybe you get easily upset when things don't go the way you planned or wanted. Whatever the action, if you know what they are, then you can develop ways to improve your behavior.If your boyfriend will not come forth with this information, try asking your parents or your friends - they see your behavior as well. Make sure you are genuinely wanting to improve yourself and are willing to face constructive criticism beforehand. No one enjoys having to face their faults, but it is a critical part of self-improvement.In the meantime, try some personal reflection. See if you can start to locate these behaviors or faults in yourself. If you can see for yourself when you begin acting childish, you can take the steps needed to stop or correct the behavior on your own - that is part of being an adult.
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