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writes:Ok well do i have a right to get jelous of my boyfriends female cousin? Its only this one though because i know when they were younger they fooled around with each other he said when he got older he realized it was wrong and stoped. She says stuff to upset me on purpose but is "joking" and than my boyfriend sent me a pic of them two cause he wants it on his myspace. The pic is her with both of her legs around his waste but she is on the side of him and they have there arm around each other. I know he loves me we have been to gather over a year and plan to get marrid some day. But do i have a right to be upset about this even though its his cousin, I dont think of her as it though sence they did have some what of a past. Also one more thing Should i put the pic up there for him even though i dont like it? THanks you for your time.
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reader, AlwaysHereToHelp!  +, writes (7 March 2011):
 Hello :) Well this is a rather difficult matter especially as she's family. I think you should find out a bit more information about this. Why not talk to your boyfriend and just find out a bit more about his relationship with her when they were younger? And if you feel uncomfortable about putting this picture on then don't. if he asks, ''why?'' Then be honest with him and just say it looks sort of wrong especially because that's his cousin. dont insinuate anything just simply say you think it looks a bit weird as they're related or something. I think though you should be alright as he clearly loves you. if you plan to get married one day and i am sure he wont fall for his cousin anytime soon. And of course you have a right to be jealous especially if his cousin likes to wind you up about it. Hope this help ;)
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