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About my ex ldr I miss her a lot and don't know if it's to late to get her back?

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Question - (5 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 March 2011)
A male United States age 36-40, *baller writes:

Well to make this short as I can But if you like to read go for it. Well I meet this girl on A on line web site in I fell in love with her. I can't help but to think about her all the time and every day. But do to the ldr thing again I lost her again well It started out being her calling me and giving her my phone number. So she called me up one night and talked about every thing. We got along great did not want to stop talking to each other almost. So we started to talk about every day for about six months or so and then we wanted to see each other for the first time so I got a plane ticket and went to see her. She lives on the east coast and I live on the west coast. So We meet for the first time and had a great time got to know each other really good. So I stayed about a month with her. But she did not want her mom and dad to know about me so. I think that stress put on her really did a lot to her that I was there because she did not want her mom and dad to find out I was there. I have no Idea why she did not want to tell her mom and dad about me? But I guess I will never find out because she did not really tell me why. But so it was good other then that we had a great sex life and we where really into each other. So about after a month I left her because of no job and money or a place to live. So about a yr after that we wanted to try to live with each other so we talked about it alot and talk about me moving out there and finding a job. But things did not work out I could not find a job or a place to live for about three months I was looking for one and well her mom found me there one day and kicked me out of the house so I had to come back home. So I came back home and after that about a month or so she started to not want to talk to me more and more. So she called me saying that we should take a break and she did not want to make things work any more so she blocked my phone number. And so about after a month or so I got a call about 2am In the morning and it was her she wanted to talk to me because she was not filling good. So we talked but it was not as the same as the first time we talked she did not call me much if at all. I would always have to tex her or call her and half the time she did not even pick up when I called her. So one night I found out that she blocked me again so now I'm blocked again its been about a month now again and just last night I wanted to call her on another line because she texed me one night saying that she wanted to move on and change her phone number bla bla bla. She did not know we have two lines in are house so I called her and she did not change her phone number she just blocked me and then well about two hrs after she called me wanting to know if I called her from that phone number? Ok so why would you even call me back again even if I called her? I don't get her I really want things to work out with her I wish I could be with her I don't know why we have to be like this I miss her so much and still love her alot why is she doing this to me I know she is playing a game with me but I just wish I had her again?

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A female reader, GeeGee255 United States +, writes (12 March 2011):

GeeGee255 agony auntPS: I should have added that the only way to fix this is to earn back both her and her parents trust. She can't see you if her parents are giving her a hard time about you.

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A female reader, GeeGee255 United States +, writes (11 March 2011):

GeeGee255 agony auntHow old is this girl? Is she is still in high school I can understand why her parents might not be to keen on the idea of a 20 something year old they know nothing about sneaking around with their daughter behind their backs. Or messing up her college plans.

You should have told her you couldn't visit her without her parents knowledge or permission. Now they don't trust either of you which has only made things worse.

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