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writes:I'm 16, and I have recently started having sex with my boyfriend. He fingers me a lot, and I love it, it feels really good. But when we have sex, I don't really feel anything. Is there anything I can do, or he can do? I'm always on top, does that have anything to do with it? He says it's because he is fingering me too much, is this also true? Thank you to everyone who answers!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2011): you should try in missionary position and ensure that both of you are in comfortable position.
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reader, Problem.helper +, writes (5 March 2011):
 The thing about fingering is partially true. Girl can get to the point when it's harder for her to cum during actual intercourse than fingering, but you should always feel something. The thing I need to know what size is his penis so I can give you further advice. Because that is kinda my guess what the problem is.But you can try toys like dildo , new positions and many other things.There could be various reasons why you can't feel anything but I need to know little more so we can narrow it down.
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reader, jwong  +, writes (5 March 2011):
Why are you always on top? You should try different positions. I, myself do not like being on top for the whole time. Try asking him if he is interested in different positions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2011): Everybody enjoys different things in bed. Maybe try another position, have him be on top or doggy style then he can stimulate your clit at the same time. Be patient especially if you just started having sex.
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