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What am I supposed to make of her actions? she's still affectionate. We've broken up.

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Question - (5 March 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 March 2011)
A male United States age 36-40, *ust dont no writes:

Ok so I'm 25 years old and my son's mother is 20 years old.

We have been in a relationship for six years. Now she is saying that she doesn't know what she wants, but that she needs her time to think and figure out what shes looking for.

So we ended our relationship, but she has no family where we live.

And she doesn't want to take our son to a place eight hours away from me. So instead she stays in my house. Even though we have broken up.

She says she wants things to work out for us, but she's just not in love with me any more.

Recently I found out she was dating a man after our break up, but now she has ended it with him.

Yet she still tries to give me affection from time to time.

I'm just so confused and don't know what to do anymore.

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A female reader, AlwaysHereToHelp! United Kingdom +, writes (8 March 2011):

AlwaysHereToHelp! agony auntHello :)

Well do you still love her ? if so then you should try and work things out sit her down and ask her why she doesnt love you anymore try and get to the bottom of what she wants. If she is still affecttionet towards you she must still love you abit even if shes confused about her feelings.

Why dont you and her write down what you do and dont like about eachother give eachother your lists. and discuss what you have both writen down, try and change these things for eachother it might help you rebuild your relotionship and have a fresh start it might sound a bit odd and stupid to do this but you can both get an idea of what you are both thinking.

If you dont still love her explain that she has got to stop showing affection to you as you are now over but listen to her and what she has to say their might be a reason for this and always be willing to give her another chance everyone desearves one.

Hope this helps x

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