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writes:Hello,I have recently started seeing a girl that my best friend had been seeing previously. I had a crush on her awhile back, but at that time she was seeing my best friend. My problem is that I don't think I'm fully satisfying her sexually. This may sound weird, but since I'm in college and the walls are thin, when my friend and her used to have sex she was loud and always moaning and horny all the time. However, with me during sex she is quiet and doesn't seem to get much pleasure. The only time she seems loud is when I perform oral on her. My friend's penis is around 9 or 10 inches, and mine is around 5.5. Will I ever be able to please her through penetration?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2011): Women, the OP's girl was moaning in pleasure with the other guy. Telling him "don't worry, it's probably nothing" is not going to help. You're just being patronizing to the OP and that hurts much worse than hearing the truth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2011): I completely disagree with the guy who first responded to your query and I am a woman! Every girl is different and so is every guy. I really think you ought to just relax and try not thinking too much about your 'moves'. Maybe she senses you are fretting about pleasing her and it's putting her off fully getting into it. If it feels like a chore then it won't be any good for either of you. Size really does matter - but that goes for big penises too - just slows you down :DSo you actually sound just fine - don't worry. There are lots of things you can do to feel better about pleasing your girlfriend and I suggest you begin by talking to her if you feel things aren't all you want them to be in the bedroom. Honestly, it might sound utterly humiliating just now to own up to not feeling like a sex god, but if I was with a man who I liked but things weren't going well sexually, I'd be tickled pink by him showing such care and initiative about my pleasure that he wants to improve things for us both. Try it - she might think of you as the best lover ever after that! :-)If that sounds too scary, tell her you want to spend all night exploring her body and do just that! You'll definitely stumble over something that drives her nuts so you've nothing to lose. Plus she will feel totally insatiable - half the battle for you :DI really think your main issue has nothing to do with your friend, you are just worried about your performance and with a new partner that is natural. Try and see every sexual partner as a chance to learn something new about sex, be safe and have fun with it! Most importantly, if she isn't going to tell you what she wants she has no right to complain about not getting what she wants!Be confident for once and Best of luck! P.S. I am going to suggest that if you haven't heard of the clitoris yet, you may want to become familiar with it. Find a position that lets you pay lots of attention to it and you'll probably see a rapid advancement in your girlfriend's pleasure!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 March 2011):
 9 or 10 inches?? Really?? From my expectations she was probably screaming with pain as that would hurt a woman instead of giving her pleasure. Anyway back to the question asked. Size isnt everything and its more to do with getting to know a womans body and what they like personally. Therefore dont be shy and just ask her what she likes and what she doesnt. It takes time to learn to adapt to each different sexual parter as different things turn different people on. So take your time to explore her body and ask her what she likes. Size shouldnt matter here. 5.5inches is perfectly normal. Its not what you have its how you use it. So get creative and try new positions. Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2011): Lets face it bro, if your friend's wang is as big as you say and he knew how to use it, he was doing things that you and I could never hope to do. Though every answer your going to get is going to say size doesn't matter (which is true to an extent, the fact simply is that he was probably reaching places the average man simply can't. You can try your hardest to angle yourself, master oral or manuel, but in the end, your straight up penetration probably won't be able to match your friends. Women all love the size, whether or not they want to admit it.
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