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writes:Well to start I've been married for 29yrs about a year ago I cheated on my HB with a friend of mine and my HB's he was my good friend we talked all the time about every thing then I made a big mistake he got what he wanted then he did not want to talk to me and became a jerk I did not think he just wanted to get in my pants.why would he do that. Well he is coming to our house.to help my HB do some work. Should talk to him about it to find out what he think's about me or tell him to keep his mouth shut Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2011): You should be talking to your HB, not the so-called "friend".
So, why did you cheat? You could have left your husband and been fair to him.
It sounds like you didn't want this to be a one time thing, and it ended up like that, and now you are not happy.
Basically, he fucked you and fucked over his friend (your HB), diminishing BOTH of you in his eyes more likely than not, and by maintaining the friendship with you and your husband with the secrecy that you have both maintained, you continue to both betray your HB.
There is a lot more to the story than just a sexual encounter, and that is the problem with cheating.
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