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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Im 21 and 36weeks pregnant, my baby father started to act werid around me for the last two months I would have to beg himto spend time with me an now he wants his space he ignors my calls an texts I know I shouldnt want to be with him cause the way he been with me .But! I love him :( how can I get him back???
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2011): Sounds as tho this guy is running scared! Your being pregnant may be the problem. Why the unprotected sex if he wasn't ready for fatherhood. The old saying, "you can lead a horse to water, but you cannot make him drink" is similar. You cannot make this guy respond no matter how much you beg. I'd back off and let him thoroughly think his part in this scenario. Good luck whatever the outcome.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2011): first, stop begging him to spend time with you. Stop texting and calling him. If he doesn't want to spend time with you, begging him just makes you look bad and turns him off even more.
you can't make someone want to spend time with you, if they don't.
try to meet his needs maybe with being pregnant everything has centered around you but he's feeling weird cos of being a father. show concern for his needs, but don't beg him to show you attention.
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