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writes:My boyfriend has some different requests for me lately. He says I have a sexy little body and he would like me to show it off more. He has recently purchased some very skimpy clothes, like micro-mini skirts, tiny little shirts that show my stomach. He has bought me some very short shorts that show my cheeks, and has got me a thong bikini, that he wants me to wear to the beach. I don't mind wearing it for him, but not for everyone. Any suggestions? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2011): Yeah tennisstar gives great advice. Ill side with her on that.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (6 March 2011):
 Goodness where did he go "clothes" shopping? Larry Flynt's Sex Shop?
I would kindly thank him for the pieces of cloth he bought you and tell him you will gladly wear it for him in private. Maybe put on the sexy clothing, do a little striptease for him, perhaps a lap dance..use it as a little interlude before sex.
But when it comes to everyday society, tell him you don't think the style is really you, it's not functional, and a bit too revealing. If he tries to argue or act hurt, explain that you don't want to attract unwanted attention from creepy men.
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reader, banditsmom1124 +, writes (6 March 2011):
 simple...dont do it! you dont have to do anything that makes you uncomfortable. if he breaks up with you cause of this then hes not worth it.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (6 March 2011):
 I think you should you talk to your boyfriend about it. Tell him what you feel comfortable with and what you don't feel comfortable with.
Perhaps I am being presumptuous, but it worries me that he would buy you things like these, it tells me that either he just does not know how to buy classier outfits for his girlfriend or he wants all the other guys to be jealous somehow in which case, it goes to show you that this relationship is lacking of a certain amount of respect. I do not know though, I am just spilling out my thoughts for your consideration.
Just talk to him about it.
I hope that helps.
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reader, hotinlove  +, writes (6 March 2011):
Its best to be honest, have you told him you dont mind showing off for him, but really not everyone wants to see what he wants to see. Gotta be honest I probably wouldnt want to go to the beach with my family and watch you walk around in a thong. Summer is almost here, gives you lots of great opportunities to wear your new skimpy clothes because its `so hot`Im sure he would love to watch you wash some windows in your new short shorts! good luck!
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