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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I had been seeing a girl for two years when we broke up last June. Although we were not "officially" in a relationship, we still went on dates, kissed, said we loved one another, and spent most of our time together. However, in November, I met another girl, and I also began to kiss girl #2, cuddle her, take her on dates, etc. I ended up getting back together with girl #1 in January, but when she found out about girl #2, she said I was a liar and a cheater. I'll admit that I lied to her, but I don't consider what I did cheating, since we weren't officially together at the time. She says that since we were acting like a couple, then I shouldn't have seen another girl without ending things with her first. What do you think? Am I a cheater?
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (7 March 2011):
 Did you ever tell girl #1 that she was free to date other people or that you planned to? If not then you should have.And yes it would be considered cheating by 99.9% of all women after 2 years of an exclusive relationship.I think you are just trying to make yourself feel better at this point by rationalizing. It's not an attractive quality. Next time be honest with the girls you date up front.
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