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writes:After Google Crome history pointed out to me this evening, that my top visited websites are Lamebook, FMyLife.com and Facebook and that the time I spend on each of them laughing and saying "life could be worse" has just made me realise I should be on them :(Life is bad: In Decemeber my ex girlfriend after 3 weeks of being apart began dating one of my best friends, adding insult to injury as we dated for two years, and she completely broke my heart, hence the break up. This was the beginning of a downhill spiral.....After facing lots of emotional issues surrounding the whole thing and still finding it difficult, I now realise my life is bad. My beloved water sports I did every weekend has been reduced to only a few times since Christmas, the friends I did them with have now gone to UNI and the world of work and are spending a cool weekend away sending me texts of what I'm missing out on, the club in which I did all these things is closing down so goodbye remaining friends there. I have ever mounting piles of collage work I'm well behind with, I talk online with people far less, my evenings are boring and tiresome and I feel ever since Decemeber I've become a shell of who I once was and empty.The one person in the world who's company I totally love, and who I have to say is an incredibly close friend lives 4000 miles away, and with busy lives, time differences I can't talk to * * as much as I'd like to........Never mind the packages I send doesn't seem to reach * * making me futher depressed.What should I do? I have nothing to look forward to apart from mountains of work, and no prospect of this changing. I don't feel the person I once was, and nobody seems to see this as anyone in a remotely similar situation has seemed to have moved on, and have their own fun lives to lead right now....FMLI need a holiday, and that just isn't going to happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2011): HiYou have everything to look forward to, you just can't see because you look in the past and focus only on the negative. You wake up...and at a guess healthy...youth on your side....stop feeling sorry for yourself and look the world in the eye and count all your blessings...no matter how small...For example ..your not at war leaving family and children behind....your not fearing your life...you have one life.. it's just waiting for you to start living it...in this world there is no time for wasting life on negative trash. I hope you take a look around you and see how life could be.Be strong and make a great future for yourself and the generations to come. :) good luck....forward not back.spunky monkey
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